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The Light That Shines in the Darkness

Posted By Pastor Kevin Rutledge

As we gather to celebrate the birth of Christ, we are reminded of a profound truth: Jesus, the light of the world, was born into darkness. This light, sent to dispel the shadows, has faced constant opposition. Yet, despite every attempt to extinguish it, the light continues to shine brightly, offering hope and transformation to all who embrace it. Feeling the Weight of Darkness In today’s world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the darkness surrounding us. Many of us struggle to experience the joy and wonder of the season, saying, “I’m just not feeling it this year,” or “It’s not the same as it used to be.” This sense of disconnection is understandable in a world fraught with anxieties and fears. Violence feels ever-present, and hunger, poverty, and loneliness persist in our communities. People face impossible choices between food, medicine, and heat, while others wonder if anyone truly sees or cares about them. The weight of this darkness can make it difficult to see the light. But perhaps we’re expecting too much. Why should it be easier to perceive the light now than it was 2,000 years ago? The Humility of Christ’s Birth Consider the circumstances of Christ’s birth. He wasn’t born in a palace or with grand fanfare. Instead, He entered the world in the humblest of settings—a manger, because there was no room at the inn. His mother, a young woman facing potential scandal, and His earthly father, a simple carpenter, welcomed Him into a world that had little room for a Savior. Yet, God’s plan persevered. Christ entered the world quietly, almost unnoticed. The powerful felt threatened by His arrival, learning of it only through the wise men from afar. Meanwhile, the shepherds—society’s marginalized—became the first to hear the good news, as an angel proclaimed His birth and a heavenly host filled the night sky with praise. The shepherds’ response is a model for us all. Without hesitation, they left everything behind to seek the Christ child. When they found Him, they were transformed, returning to their fields rejoicing and sharing the good news. Our Response to the Light This story challenges us to consider our own response to the light of Christ. Are we keeping watch, ready to recognize God’s movement in our lives? When we hear the good news, are we willing to drop everything to seek it? And when we encounter that light, do we allow it to transform us and compel us to share it with others? The darkness in our world is undeniable, but so is the persistence of light. Even in the bleakest circumstances, God’s love continues to break through. There are people working tirelessly for peace and justice, feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, and offering hope to the hopeless. These modern-day shepherds have seen the light and now share it with others. Carrying the Light Forward As we reflect on the nativity story, we are called to be more than passive observers. Like the shepherds, we are invited to step out of our comfort zones to encounter God’s presence in unexpected places. This doesn’t mean life’s challenges will disappear, but it does mean we have a choice in how we respond to the darkness. We can choose to be bearers of light, letting the transformative power of Christ’s love shine through us. Imagine the impact if each of us committed to this calling. What if we approached every interaction, challenge, and moment of our day with the awareness that we carry within us the light of the world? How might our families, communities, and world be transformed? The Ongoing Miracle of Christmas The birth of Christ reminds us that God’s light often enters the world in subtle, easily overlooked ways. It pushes through the cracks of our brokenness, reborn in our hearts, minds, and spirits. Our task is to nurture that light within ourselves and help others recognize it in their lives. As we celebrate this season, let’s challenge ourselves to carry the light of Christ into every corner of our lives. Let’s praise God and share the good news, just as the shepherds did. Let’s make room in our hearts and in our world for the Savior to be born anew. The question is simple yet profound: Will we actively seek Christ’s light, allow it to transform us, and boldly shine it into the darkness around us? The answer has the power to change not just our lives, but the world itself. In a world often consumed by shadows, we are called to be beacons of hope, reflections of the divine light that entered the world in a humble manger. May we embrace this calling, not just during the holiday season, but throughout the year. For in doing so, we participate in the ongoing miracle of Christmas—the light that continually overcomes the darkness.

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Love Casts Out Fear: Embracing God's Gift This Advent Season

Posted By Pastor Kevin rutledge

As we approach the final Sunday of Advent, we find ourselves on the threshold of Christmas, reflecting on the profound gift of love that God has bestowed upon humanity. This love, manifested in the birth of Jesus Christ, challenges us to reconsider our understanding of God and invites us to exchange our worldly fears for divine love. The story of Christmas is a testament to God's unfathomable love. Imagine the Creator of the universe choosing to enter our world as a vulnerable infant, born in humble circumstances to parents who were themselves unprepared for the magnitude of their role. This act of love was so radical, so unexpected, that it causes us to marvel at the continuity between the God of the Old Testament and the God revealed in Jesus Christ. As the apostle John boldly proclaims, "God is love" (1 John 4:8). Yet, as we contemplate this divine love, we must confront a powerful force that often prevents us from fully embracing it: fear. Fear is a formidable adversary, binding us tightly and limiting our vision. It obscures our true identity as beloved children of God and blinds us to the inherent worth of others. Fear stifles our potential, makes us hesitant to welcome strangers, and can even drive us towards violence and hatred. But here's the good news: God's love has the power to cast out fear. As we read in 1 John 4:18, "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." This verse challenges us to let go of our fears and exchange them for the boundless love that God offers. However, this exchange is not a one-time event. Fear has a way of creeping back into our lives, often manifesting as anxiety about the unknown future or apprehension about how others will receive us. Every day, in every interaction, we face the possibility of rejection or misunderstanding. This fear can paralyze us, preventing us from sharing God's love and the hope found in Christ's story with those who desperately need to hear it. Practical Application: Living Out God's Love So how can we practically live out this love and overcome our fears? Here are a few suggestions: Set a goal to show love intentionally. Challenge yourself to find 20 ways to love your neighbor this week. Start small if needed, but push yourself to grow in this practice. Reach out to those who may be lonely or questioning. The Christmas season provides a perfect opportunity to invite someone to experience the story of God's love in a welcoming environment. Be willing to sacrifice for others. True love, as demonstrated by Christ, involves self-sacrifice. Ask yourself, "What am I willing to give up for the sake of showing God's love to another person?" Let your actions speak louder than words. Live in such a way that others see God's love reflected in your life and are drawn to it. Prepare yourself to push through fear. When you feel fear creeping in, have a plan ready. It might be a silent prayer, revisiting encouraging Scripture passages, or reminding yourself of God's love and calling on your life. Remember the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus. When told of her extraordinary role in God's plan, she was initially afraid. But the angel's words, "Do not be afraid, for you have found favor with God" (Luke 1:30), gave her the courage to say yes to God's call. Like Mary, we too are beloved by God and chosen to play a part in His plan to bring love into the world. The Transformative Power of Love As we embrace God's love and allow it to cast out our fears, we open ourselves to transformation. We become more capable of seeing others as God sees them – as beloved children made in His image. We become more willing to step into the unknown future that God has prepared for us. We become more effective ambassadors of Christ's love in a world that desperately needs it. This transformative love isn't just for our benefit. It's for the sake of the world, for those who are lost and hurting, for those who have yet to experience the hope and joy found in Christ. When we allow God's love to flow through us, we become part of His redemptive work in the world. As we approach Christmas, let's challenge ourselves to live fully in God's love. Let's push past our fears and insecurities, knowing that we are empowered by the same love that brought Christ into the world. Let's be willing to invite, to welcome, to reach out, and to sacrifice for the sake of others. In doing so, we not only honor the true spirit of Christmas but also participate in the ongoing story of God's love for the world. We become living testimonies to the truth that love – God's perfect love – truly does cast out all fear. May this Advent season be a time of renewed commitment to living in and sharing God's transformative love. As we celebrate the birth of Christ, let us also celebrate the rebirth of love in our own hearts, a love that casts out fear and changes the world, one person at a time.

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How To Find Your Family's Christmas Traditions

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By the time Christmas arrives each year, I've already been counting down for weeks. The lights, the sounds, the songs, the hustle and bustle, the beautiful packages, the fresh baked cookies — I love it all! As the pace around us quickens, we can almost feel the anticipation in the crisp cold air. The culmination of all our merrymaking is coming with the celebration of Jesus’ birth.   If you’re like me, it can be easy to get wrapped up in the busyness of the season. But as a parent, I have to grab hold of every opportunity to share why we celebrate Christmas. In parenting, traditions help us teach our children who they are as part of our family as well as who they are in God’s family. Traditions reinforce our most fundamental values. That's why traditions are important any time of year, but especially around Christmas. Children gain a sense of security and belonging as they experience traditions. And it’s through traditions that our faith has been shared from generation to generation. Psalm 145:4 reminds us that God is worthy of praise every day, and it’s our role as adults to share God’s great works from one generation to the next. Traditions don’t have to be grand. It’s the meaning behind them and the togetherness that makes them special. Traditions don’t have to be grand. It’s the meaning behind them and the togetherness that makes them special. If you’d like to start family traditions or add new ones, here are some ideas to get you started. Four Christmas Traditions to Start This Year 1. Read the story of Jesus’ birth together as a family. The story of Jesus’ birth is found in Luke 2:1-20. Whether you choose to snuggle up by a cozy fire, read a different part at bedtime each evening, or take turns reading over breakfast, reading the Christmas story draws us closer to Jesus by reminding us that He came to us. 2. Give a deeper meaning to gift giving. If gift giving is already a part of your family traditions, consider adding more intentionality behind how you give. When our oldest was born, we started the tradition of giving only three gifts for Christmas. Our intention behind this tradition has many layers, but they all point back to Jesus. First, we don't want the potential extravagance and expectation of presents to overshadow the true purpose of Christmas. Second, we use gift giving as a reminder that Jesus is our greatest gift and we emphasize that with our two little ones. And last, we give three gifts because that’s how many gifts the wise men gave Jesus after His birth. Our children are 8 and 4, and they love that they get the same number of gifts that Jesus received. This may not be a good fit for your family, and that’s OK. The idea is simply to be creative with your gift giving traditions and look for ways to ensure Jesus is at the center. 3. Do something unique and fun. Some of our favorite family traditions are the simple ones. It doesn’t matter that they’re simple. They’re ours and that makes them special. Whether it’s baking Jesus a birthday cake, caroling in the neighborhood, drinking hot chocolate, or taking a late night drive to see Christmas lights, simple things build the foundation of a healthy well-rounded childhood. Include your children in the planning of some simple and fun new traditions this year, and watch their faces shine! 4. Attend a Christmas service together as a family. Attending church together is a tradition that goes far beyond the holiday season, but there’s something extra special about Christmas services. This gives everyone in our family time to pause and reflect on the goodness of God. God gave us His one and only son, Jesus, to be our Savior. There’s no better time to start attending church as a family than this Christmas. Christmas services at church are always special and something you’ll be talking about for years to come!

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Exchanging Anxiety for Peace: A Journey of Faith and Contentment

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Exchange Anxiety for Peace: A Transformative Gift In a world filled with chaos and uncertainty, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by anxiety. From global conflicts to personal challenges, the weight of worry can seem unbearable. But what if there were a way to exchange that anxiety for something infinitely more valuable—God’s peace? The Gift Exchange That Transforms As the holiday season approaches, many of us get caught up in the frenzy of gift-giving—making lists, shopping, and stressing over finding the "perfect" presents. Amid this whirlwind, let’s consider a different kind of exchange—one that doesn’t involve material goods but transforms our hearts. The world gives us its own “gifts,” but often these come as sorrow, fear, and darkness. These unwanted burdens can leave us feeling heavy and discouraged. Thankfully, God offers a divine exchange: trading our worries for His gifts of hope, peace, joy, love, and light. These are not temporary fixes—they are life-changing treasures. Jesus’ Promise of Peace Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.” These words are more than comforting—they’re an invitation to trust in a peace that transcends understanding. Say them aloud: “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you.” There’s a soothing rhythm in these words that quiets our hearts. This peace is more than a feeling of calm. It transforms our thoughts, actions, and even the world around us. It’s a peace that calls us to be active participants in God’s vision. Becoming Peacemakers The peace Jesus offers isn’t passive. It’s a call to action: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” True peace requires more than internal calm—it demands reconciliation, love for our neighbors (and enemies), and a commitment to seek justice. Our world desperately needs this kind of peace. News of war, violence, and injustice reminds us that as long as such realities exist, we cannot claim to have fully realized peace. Yet, this does not mean we should lose hope. Instead, hope propels us forward, helping us live in the tension between our current reality and the promised peace of God’s kingdom. Living the Divine Exchange How do we begin this exchange of anxiety for peace? It starts with turning to God. When worry threatens to overwhelm us, we can lean on Jesus’ words: “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Do not let them be afraid.” This peace is more than a personal escape from stress. It transforms how we live, love, and interact with others. It enables us to love ourselves, embrace our neighbors, and even extend grace to our enemies. Through this transformation, we become true children of God—peacemakers in a world hungry for hope. A Daily Challenge As we journey through this season and beyond, let’s challenge ourselves to make this exchange every day: When anxiety knocks, trade it for peace. When fear takes hold, exchange it for hope. When darkness creeps in, replace it with God’s light. This exchange isn’t always easy. It takes faith, practice, and perseverance. But the rewards are profound. Living in God’s peace allows us to share that peace with others, becoming beacons of hope and healing in a broken world. Reflecting the Prince of Peace Whatever weighs on your heart today, bring it to God. Offer it up in exchange for His peace. Then, empowered by that peace, step into the world as a peacemaker. In doing so, you reflect God’s love and bring His transformative peace to those around you. The Prince of Peace is always with us, ready to help us make this exchange. In His strength, we can trade anxiety for peace, fear for love, and darkness for light. This is the ultimate gift exchange—one that not only transforms us but also the world we touch. Are you ready to make the exchange today?

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From Seasonal Tale to Lifelong Transformation: The Power of Christmas Every Day

Posted By Pastor Kevin Rutledge

In the heart of the holiday season lies the story of Christmas, which embodies transformation, hope, and the joy of togetherness. Yet, as the festive decorations come down and the rhythm of daily life resumes, the challenge often becomes how to sustain that Christmas spirit throughout the year. How can we nurture the warmth and light of this time, allowing it to guide us in the face of life's inevitable darker moments?One powerful sermon suggests that the key to year-round transformation is found by delving deeper into the message of hope from Jesus's birth. The Christmas story isn't just a seasonal tale; it's a reminder that we are not alone in our experiences. In the form of Jesus, God came to share in our joys and sorrows, offering a beacon of light in our darkest times. The profound change in characters like Ebenezer Scrooge from 'A Christmas Carol' illustrates the potential for redemption and renewal within us all.However, to keep the spirit of Christmas alive, more is needed to ride the wave of holiday emotions. We must forge a lasting connection with the message of Christ—a message that extends beyond the manger and into the very fabric of our lives. This connection to Christ's light can fuel our hopes and sustain our desires for peace, love, and joy long after the holiday season has ended.So, how do we embody the Christmas spirit every day? We can look at ourselves as candles, each carrying the flame of Christ's light. Our task is to protect this flame, ensure it doesn't flicker out, and carry it into the world's darkest corners. Wherever there is pain, loneliness, hopelessness, violence, and division, it's our role to bring the light of hope and the promise of transformation.Consider the candles we light during Christmas services—how each flame is passed from one to another, growing brighter as it spreads. This image serves as a metaphor for our own lives. When we embrace the light of Christ, we become bearers of hope, tasked with lighting the way for others. Even on days when darkness feels overwhelming, the promises of God assure us that light is never far from reach. Darkness, after all, is merely the absence of light.It's important to remember that transformation begins within. By connecting with the message of Christ and seeking the transformation He brings, we embark on a path of personal growth. We become equipped to inspire change in our communities and the world as we grow. By living the Christmas message of goodwill and hope daily, we actively participate in the world's healing, fostering unity and love.So, let us carry the lessons of Christmas with us throughout the year. Let us hold fast to the hope and joy it represents and let it be a catalyst for change within ourselves and in our interactions with others. In doing so, we'll find that the true spirit of Christmas is a gift not just for a season but for every day. This gift can lead to lifelong transformation and an unwavering sense of hope.

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Shaping a Legacy with the Light of Christ's Love

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As we walk through life, our every action and decision leave ripples that extend far beyond our immediate presence. But what if we could see the full impact of our choices? What if, like the fictional Scrooge, we were confronted with the haunting possibilities that lie ahead, guided by a vision of what might be if we continued on our current path?Such a thought experiment urges us to consider the transformative power of facing our potential legacies. The echoes of our choices are not merely whispers; they significantly impact the world around us. Reflecting on this profound reality, we can find guidance in living a life steeped in Christ-like love and holiness. The Future and Our ImpactOur actions today are the seeds of tomorrow's garden. How we treat others, how we speak, how we love—all of these are threads in the tapestry of our legacy. When we contemplate our lives through the lens of Christ's love, we begin to understand the weight of our actions and the indelible marks they leave.The story of Scrooge is not just a tale of Christmas past; it's a lesson in redemption and transformation. Scrooge's journey from a life of solitude and bitterness to one of joy and community serves as a powerful metaphor. It's a narrative that invites us to examine our own lives and consider whether we are cultivating a future of joy and benefit, not only for ourselves but for others.God's Promises for the FutureIn times of uncertainty, it's comforting to know that we have a compass in the scripture and the teachings of Christ. We are promised a future under divine sovereignty—a future of peace, without pain or division. This is not merely a distant hope but an unfolding reality that we are called to actively shape. As agents of God's kingdom, we can foster peace, justice, and community even amidst the shadows of our current world. With Jesus Christ as our guide, we have the strength and guidance to embrace and advance the manifestation of God's peace and unity today.Crafting a Future with the Blueprint of Divine LoveIf we believe in the promise of a world filled with peace and joy, why not start living out those values today? Our daily lives can be an expression of the divine future we await. By living in peace, seeking justice, and building community, we are crafting a present that reflects the promised future.The Christmas story, at its heart, is about God's redemptive plan coming to fruition through Christ. This season, and every day, offers us an opportunity to embody the principles of that story—love, giving, renewal, and hope. It reminds us that each of us has a role to play in bringing about the future God has envisioned.ConclusionIn this journey of life, let us consider how our choices today will echo into eternity. May we draw inspiration from the scripture and the example of Christ to live lives that ripple out with positive influence. Let us be courageous in confronting our future, shaping it with love, and leaving a Christ-led legacy that will resonate with joy and peace for generations to come.

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The Nativity You Know Is A Lie

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We’re all familiar with the scene. It’s a quiet, starlit evening, Mary and Joseph are reclining comfortably in a quaint country stable. Baby Jesus is sleeping, well, like a baby. As Mary and Joseph rested from their journey, reverent, orderly shepherds and noble wise men visited the happy couple and brought gifts to honor Jesus. That picture of the first Christmas is wrong. Not So Silent Night If we examine the actual circumstances surrounding Jesus’s birth, we find that it wasn’t what we’ve always been told. The 80-mile journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem would’ve taken at least four days on foot. It was a hazardous journey through rugged terrain, fields and rural towns. Mary was very pregnant, and probably under some emotional stress as a teen mom whose marriage was nearly over before it started (Matthew 1:18-21). At that time, animal stables in Bethlehem were dark, damp caves in which livestock slept and ate. This was not a tidy, sterile environment for a newborn. The shepherds in that region were social outcasts of low economic status and were looked down on by the rest of society. It was not a calm, comfortable, silent night. It was dirty, smelly, awkward and definitely not charming. Contrary to modern depictions, the wise men didn’t even visit Jesus immediately after His birth. They arrived at Jesus’s home when He was about 2 years old (Matthew 2:10). Well Meaning But Wrong Christmas carols and porcelain nativity scenes are well meaning, but they don’t do justice to the weight of the events that took place that night in the Israeli countryside. The most important thing we should remember about Christmas is that God came to save sinners (John 3:17). Jesus came from heaven into our mess, not because we deserved it, but because we needed it. As we celebrate Christmas, let’s remember the beautiful mess the nativity scene was. Let’s remember that no matter how messy parts of our lives can be, Jesus is for us and is with us. In the midst of our messes, Jesus joins us and begins to transform us, and that is something worth celebrating.

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Unwrapping Joy: Scrooge's Journey through Christmas Present

Posted By Pastor Kevin Rutledge

In the enchanting narrative of 'A Christmas Carol,' the character of Scrooge undergoes a remarkable transformation, evolving from a solitary and embittered man into a soul brimming with joy and generosity. Amidst the tale's timeless resonance, one pivotal moment stands out—the encounter between Scrooge and the Ghost of Christmas Present. This article intricately explores this episode, shedding light on the profound revelation that reshaped Scrooge's perception of Christmas and, consequently, his life. The Essence of Scrooge's Metamorphosis: At the heart of 'A Christmas Carol' lies a poignant reminder of the core tenets of Christmas—joy, hope, and redemption. Scrooge's journey is a beacon, illustrating past, present, and future interconnectedness in our personal narratives. "We celebrate that Christmas day, we remember Christ's first coming, we lift it up and hold it in our hearts each, every day, and lift it up every year, not only as a celebration of what God has done, but what God is doing and what God will do, because the reality of God's kingdom is that it is past, present and future." Scrooge's story urges us to openly reconcile with our past and embrace the present. Like the shepherd seeking the lost sheep, Christmas embodies God's relentless pursuit of the broken, infusing them with profound joy. This theme, woven into the fabric of the Christmas story, reflects God's recognition of what is missing in humanity and His divine mission to redeem us through the gift of His son. Unveiling the Absences: A crucial lesson from Scrooge's transformative odyssey lies in his realization of who is absent from his life. Guided by the Ghost of Christmas Present, Scrooge witnesses the jubilation and love surrounding Christmas celebrations—a joy he has unwittingly denied himself. Family gatherings, laughter, and festive merriment unfold before him, highlighting his conspicuous absence from these scenes. This revelation prompts a soul-searching journey, compelling him to identify and include those missing from his life in the warmth of his newfound celebrations. "Our world today has people who are lost in sin, lost in darkness, lost in pain and suffering, who withhold themselves, keep themselves away from the table, keep themselves away from the joy or have been excluded by others. And too often we go about our daily lives, too often we go about our weekly worship, too often we go about our normal way of being and don't pay any attention to who is missing." Discovering Radiance in the Shadows: Scrooge's tale serves as a poignant reminder that joy and hope can be unearthed even in the darkest corners. His journey into the past is a stark prompt for us to confront and grapple with our own histories. It calls us to be vigilant, identifying those absent from our celebrations and actively seeking ways to share the transformative joy and hope of Christ with them. In Conclusion: The redemptive narrative of Scrooge in 'A Christmas Carol' resonates as a potent parable of joy, hope, and redemption. As the festive season envelops us, let us conscientiously contemplate those missing from our celebrations and extend a genuine effort to include them. May our celebrations be a testament to the true essence of Christmas—sharing joy and hope with those around us, encapsulating the season's spirit in its purest form.

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Unwrapping Loneliness: Navigating the Shadows of Isolation During the Holiday Season

Posted By Pastor Kevin Rutledge

As the holiday season approaches, a time traditionally associated with warmth, joy, and togetherness, many find themselves wrestling with the shadows of loneliness. Reflecting on a recent sermon and the timeless tale of "A Christmas Carol," we delve into the dangers and challenges of loneliness, aiming to shed light on this often-overlooked struggle. In this blog post, we explore the impact of loneliness on our past, drawing parallels to Scrooge's journey, and offer insights on overcoming isolation during this festive season. The Ghosts of Christmas Past During this festive time that's supposed to be filled with joy and togetherness, it's important to recognize that the holiday season intensifies feelings of loneliness for some among us. Despite the cheerful decorations and the spirit of celebration, not everyone experiences the warmth of connection and shared happiness. This unspoken reality is a significant aspect that we, as a community, need to acknowledge and address. The recent challenges brought about by the global pandemic have made this loneliness even more pronounced. Social distancing measures, lockdowns, and travel restrictions have disrupted our usual ways of coming together. Families and friends may be separated by physical distance, making it difficult to share the joy of the season with our loved ones. While technology has allowed for virtual connections, it also highlights the tangible absence of being physically present with one another. In the story of "A Christmas Carol," we see reflections of our own struggles in the character of Scrooge. Like him, many in our community may find themselves feeling isolated due to circumstances beyond their control, emphasizing the shared nature of these feelings during the holiday season. Recognizing these parallels reminds us of the timeless themes that connect us across generations. The loneliness experienced by Scrooge serves as a cautionary tale, urging us to be mindful of our choices and their impact on our connections with others. This holiday season, let us come together as a community to support one another, reaching out to those who may be feeling lonely and ensuring everyone can experience the warmth of companionship during this time of the year. Understanding How Past Experiences Shape Our Present As we journey through life, our past experiences play a profound role in shaping our present reality. Much like the character of Scrooge in "A Christmas Carol," our past influences how we approach the holiday season and our relationships with those around us. Reflecting on Scrooge's life, we see how his past choices and experiences led him to a place of isolation. The ghosts of his past, present, and future revealed the consequences of holding onto bitterness and resentment. Similarly, our own past sorrows and pain can become emotional baggage, influencing our interactions and causing us to withdraw from the joy that the holiday season promises. Clinging to past grievances can have a detrimental impact on our present relationships and overall well-being. It acts as a barrier, preventing us from fully engaging with the joyous moments and connections available during this festive time. Just as Scrooge's bitterness affected his ability to connect with others, our unresolved past can hinder the warmth and openness needed for meaningful relationships. Embracing transformation requires a crucial step: making peace with the past. The ghosts in "A Christmas Carol" guide Scrooge towards this realization, encouraging him to confront and release the burdens of his history. Similarly, we are called to reflect on our own pasts, understanding that forgiveness, both of others and ourselves, is a powerful catalyst for change. By letting go of past sorrows and pain, we create space for new connections and experiences. This holiday season, let us collectively choose to release the grip of past grievances, allowing the spirit of joy and love to permeate our lives. As a community, we can support one another in this journey towards emotional freedom, fostering an environment where transformation becomes not just possible but a shared celebration of renewal and hope. Overcoming Loneliness: The Importance of Persistence and Invitation In the heartwarming tale of "A Christmas Carol," one of the most poignant moments unfolds through the persistent invitations extended by Scrooge's nephew. Drawing inspiration from this narrative, we discover a powerful lesson about overcoming loneliness – the transformative impact of persistent invitation. Scrooge's nephew, despite facing rejection and indifference from his uncle, remains steadfast in extending invitations for Christmas celebrations. This act of unwavering persistence is a beacon of hope and a reminder of the resilience of human connection. In our lives, we encounter individuals who may be navigating the holiday season in isolation, and it is incumbent upon us to channel the spirit of Scrooge's nephew. The power of persistent invitation lies in its ability to break through the barriers of loneliness. Loneliness often creates a self-imposed fortress around individuals, making it challenging for them to reach out or accept offers of companionship. However, this fortress begins to crumble when met with consistent and genuine invitations. The persistent act of reaching out communicates a sense of belonging and value, assuring those experiencing loneliness that they are not forgotten. As a community, we hold the key to unlocking the potential for connection. During this festive season, let us embody the spirit of Scrooge's nephew by persistently reaching out to those who may be feeling isolated. A simple invitation to share in the joy of the season, whether through a festive gathering, virtual celebration, or a heartfelt conversation, can be a lifeline for someone experiencing loneliness. In understanding the profound impact of persistent invitation, we become active participants in creating a community where no one feels left behind. Through these acts of kindness and inclusivity, we contribute to alleviating loneliness, fostering an environment where the warmth of human connection triumphs over isolation. As we extend invitations, we become agents of transformation, embodying the true spirit of the holiday season – a time of togetherness, compassion, and the power to overcome loneliness through persistent, heartfelt connection. Conclusion As we navigate the complexities of loneliness, let us remember that the Christmas season embodies a spirit of hope and transformation. Inspired by the lessons of Scrooge's redemption and the sermon's reflections, may we confront the ghosts of our past, break free from the chains of fear, and extend invitations to those yearning for connection. In doing so, we can turn this season into an opportunity for healing, rediscovery, and the creation of meaningful connections.

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Scrooge's Redemption: A Blueprint for Personal Transformation

Posted By Pastor Kevin Rutledge

As the festive season approaches, many of us relish in the familiar traditions that accompany it - the twinkling lights, the scent of pine, and the beloved stories that warm our hearts year after year. But have you ever paused to consider the profound wisdom nestled within these timeless tales? Consider the transformational journey of Ebenezer Scrooge in "A Christmas Carol" and the biblical tale of the rich man and Lazarus. Both stories underscore the fleeting nature of time, the profound impact of our actions and attitudes towards others, and the essential importance of treasuring traditions and memories. Scrooge's tale, in particular, resonates with many. He is a man burdened by his past, detached from the present, and terrified of the future. His story serves as a potent reminder of the chains we often bind ourselves with - chains of regret, fear, and complacency. But just as Scrooge learns, these chains can be cast aside, and our spirits can be set free. Just as the Christmas season brings transformation and renewal, we too can undergo our own personal transformations. But first, we must recognize the chains that hold us back. Are they chains of the past, holding us hostage to regret and past mistakes? Are they chains of the present, born from our current circumstances or struggles? Or perhaps they are chains of the future, our fears of the unknown holding us back from reaching our full potential. Recognizing these chains is the first step towards breaking free. But we don't have to do it alone. The promise of the Christmas season and the presence of the Holy Spirit offer us hope and help. By allowing ourselves to see these chains for what they truly are, we make the first move towards a more liberated, joyous life. In the spirit of the season, let's choose to confront these chains. Let's take that step out of our comfort zones and embrace the freedom that comes with transformation. Let's pay tribute to the power of Christmas classics that not only entertain us but also inspire and teach us profound life lessons. The tales we tell during this season aren't just stories; they are timeless wisdom passed down through generations. They remind us of the power of transformation, the beauty of tradition, and the possibility of a future unchained. As we celebrate the holiday season, let's remember to also celebrate our journey towards breaking free from our chains. The path to freedom and hope may be challenging, but it's a journey worth embarking on. After all, Christmas isn't just about the festivities; it's also about hope, transformation, and newfound freedom. So let's embrace the spirit of the season and begin our journey towards unchaining ourselves. Remember, no matter how far down you've fallen or how tightly the chains bind you, there is always room for an in-breaking of the supernatural. With faith and determination, we can all find our own Christmas Carol-style transformation this festive season. Let's step into this holiday season with hope, ready to unchain ourselves and embrace the joy that comes with true freedom.

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How To Have The Best Christmas Ever

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Close your eyes and picture the perfect Christmas. The smell of fresh-baked goods filling the house. The tree glistening with perfectly hung lights and a fire crackling as the kids play with new toys. We start December with high expectations, but all too often our quest for the picture-perfect day leaves us frazzled and stressed. The Christmas season becomes flooded with anything but joy as we race to find the perfect gift and open our homes to family, in-laws, and friends. This year can be different! Follow these two simple steps, and you can finally have the best Christmas ever. How to Have the Best Christmas Ever 1. Make the main thing the main thing. The best way to avoid turning into the Grinch this Christmas is to remember the point of the holiday. Christmas isn’t a task to complete or a burden to endure, it is a celebration of Jesus coming to Earth. John 3:16 says God loved us so much He sent His Son to make a way for us to have a relationship with Him.  The same way that a wedding is still a wedding with or without the pomp and circumstance, Christmas is still Christmas if we never open a gift or put lights on a tree. In both cases, the person, not the party, makes the day complete.  So don’t let the stress of making a list and checking it twice distract you from who the day is really all about. Jesus is God with us and the ultimate gift. 2. Choose peace over chaos. In a letter to the church in Colossae, the apostle Paul wrote about what it looked like to be alive in Jesus. He instructs the Colossians to, “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful” (Colossians 3:15). This instruction is true for us today. We are called to live in peace, looking at our lives with thanks for what we have instead of complaining about what we don’t have. When we remember who our heavenly Father is, we realize we have nothing to fear. The same God who made the heavens and the earth tells us to call Him, "Dad." He is a good dad who doesn't let His kids go without. "Look at the birds of the air," Jesus tells His followers. "They do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?" (Matthew 6:25-34).   Real lasting peace comes from knowing whose we are. Spending time with God, remembering the sacrifice Jesus made for us, the stress of life slowly fades away. The chaos of the holidays is put into context.  So put down the cookie cutters, step away from the gift wrap, and rest in God’s peace. Your house may not smell like fresh-baked goods and your tree may not sparkle, but seeking Jesus and His peace this holiday season will ensure you to have the best Christmas ever.

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Two People Your Christmas Play Probably Forgot

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Growing up in a small town in the South, you didn't have to be a Christian to know the Christmas story. Every church puts on the same Christmas play and light display: baby Jesus lying in a manger surrounded by his parents, Mary and Joseph, the shepherds and wise men who traveled to see Him, and the angel who announced His arrival to the world. But if we look outside of Luke 2, we discover that Jesus' arrival affected a lot more people than those huddled around the manger that night. Two Lesser-Known People in the Christmas Story 1. Simeon (Luke 2:25-35) Simeon was a man who loved God. As a priest, Simeon was well-trained in Jewish law, literature, and tradition. He would have been an expert in God’s Word, having memorized the first five books of the Bible. Simeon knew the prophecies about the Messiah who was to come and rescue Israel. Not only that, the Holy Spirit told Simeon that he would not die until he saw the Lord’s Christ. People had been waiting for the Messiah for more than 400 years when Jesus was born. As the years passed, and Simeon grew older, he must have wondered if God was really going to come through on that promise. Then, the day Mary and Joseph presented Jesus at the temple, the Holy Spirit led Simeon to the temple as well. In the moment they met, a lifelong promise was fulfilled. Simeon took Jesus in his arms and blessed Him, telling Mary and Joseph all that Jesus would do. Imagine seeing a promise you’ve been clinging to come to fruition right in front of you. Maybe it’s the promise that your marriage would be restored, that the baby you’ve waited for is coming, that the sickness will be healed. Simeon’s story is a reminder to us that God always comes through on His promises. Our God is a promise maker and a promise keeper. 2. Anna (Luke 2:36-38) A prophet named Anna was also at the temple during this time. Anna was married for seven years before her husband died. By the time Jesus was born, she had been a widow for more than 80 years. Anna never left the temple but worshiped night and day, fasting and praying. Her discipline and devotion over the course of her life put her in the position to meet Mary, Joseph, and Jesus as they walked through with Simeon. Anna then started to spread the news that this child was different. The Bible says, “she gave thanks to God and spoke about the child to all who were looking forward to the redemption of Jerusalem” (Luke 2:38). Anna saw years of fasting, praying, and worshipping culminates in that moment. As a result of her faith in the day-to-day, Anna witnessed the Son of God herself and had the opportunity to speak of the redemption and hope He would bring. Anna’s story reminds us that daily obedience and devotion puts us in a position to see the miraculous. The time we spend with God draws us closer to Him, and it’s when we’re closest to God that we’re best able to recognize His work in our lives. Jesus’ birth affected many more people than the ones we see in Christmas pageants and light displays. Jesus’ birth rocked Simeon’s world, Anna’s world, and ours as well. Without Jesus in the manger, we would not have Jesus on the cross. Without Jesus on the cross, we would not have salvation and we would still be separated from God. The Christmas story is one of prayers answered and miracles witnessed, promises fulfilled and hope restored. It’s an old story and a new story. It’s Jesus’ story, and it’s our story.

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Why Serving Others This Holiday Matters More Than We Think

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This Thanksgiving, I sat by an empty chair. My family, like all families, crams in our modest house for holidays. It’s a blur of jutted elbows, stepped on toes, and mismatched chairs. Our holiday gatherings aren’t the most spacious, but we make it work. A few years ago, my grandfather passed away leaving one chair empty at our table. Each Christmas and Thanksgiving since, that chair has represented him and the loss to our family. Time passed, wounds healed, and now there is space at our frantic holiday gatherings. The holidays, more than any other season, presents us with opportunities to serve people. My family has space at our table. And even if my grandfather was still with us, we would have room. We still have food and gifts. We still have a lot of things the Lord has so graciously given us. Who could be sitting in that chair? Who could eat our way-too-much-food and be a part of our little too off-kilter family? More importantly, would we be willing to open our hands and give? Serving others, especially strangers in need, can be uncomfortable. But when we step out of our realm of comfort, God shows us something new about Himself. Why Should We Seek to Serve? God is always doing something in our lives and in the lives of everyone around us. He intersects our paths with people at just the right time to the benefit of everyone. What happens in our lives is never just about us. Proverbs 28:27 says “Whoever gives to the poor will not want.” As we give of whatever we have, the Lord gives to us — more peace, provision, hope — whatever it is we need at the time. Opening our hands from whatever it is we are holding releases the power of God in our lives to provide more than we can imagine. Giving is a way we release control of our lives and trust God to do more than we could. Deuteronomy 15:11 says,“There will always be poor people in the land. Therefore I command you to be openhanded toward your fellow Israelites…” There will never be a shortage of people to serve. There are many who are financially poor, lacking basic physical needs like food, clothing, and shelter. Others are relationally poor, finding themselves far from home or without family. Some are emotionally spent after a tough year, and facing the holidays makes their burden even harder to bear. Ask these questions: Who around you is lacking? Who has a gap in their lives? The lonely may need a family. The disheartened may need encouragement. The poor may need provision. And you very well may have what they need. Why Is This So Uncomfortable? In our minds and on our social media accounts, we picture pajamas and abundant food and full stockings. And often, giving away our things, our time, and our money changes that picture. We have a default setting — a way that is “us”-centric. Jesus works in our hearts to make us “others”-centric. Faith is about change. If our faith is growing, we will not stay the same. We will not do things the same way we always have. The Lord will push, prod, press in on us. He will lead us straight out of comfortable and into growth. Why Not You? We all have something to give. Jesus has blessed us beyond anything we deserve. The real gift comes to us when we give it away, even if, especially if, it is uncomfortable. Jesus stepped out of His comfortable home in heaven and into a messy, uncomfortable world. The more we do the same, the more we will understand the sacrifice Jesus made for us. Jesus stepped out of His comfortable home in heaven and into a messy, uncomfortable world. The more we do the same, the more we will understand the sacrifice Jesus made for us. And wouldn’t the best gift this holiday season be a greater picture of who Jesus is? My bank account isn’t flush, but this holiday season I do have an empty chair.

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Spreading Joy: 2023 Holiday Toy, Gift, and Gift Card Drive by Methodist Services

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The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and giving. It's a time when communities come together to make a positive impact on the lives of those who may be facing challenging circumstances. Methodist Services, an organization dedicated to supporting individuals and families in need, is once again gearing up for its annual Holiday Toy, Gift, and Gift Card Drive in 2023. Methodist Services: A Beacon of Hope Methodist Services is on a mission to make a positive impact on the lives of children, adults, and families who are dealing with difficult situations like limited resources, poverty, homelessness, disabilities, and educational inequities. They provide a wide range of life-enriching programs that cover early childhood education, school-age programs, housing services, family support, mental health and counseling services, and nutrition programs. Their holistic approach recognizes that every aspect of a person's life is interconnected. The Annual Holiday Gift Drive One of the heartwarming initiatives by Methodist Services is their annual holiday gift drive. In 2023, the organization aims to provide a special gift to each of the 1,200 children and teenagers they serve. Additionally, they plan to gift every participant in their Education, Housing, Counseling, and Care Management programs with a gift card. These gifts are not just material items; they represent a gesture of compassion and a way to bring a little bit of joy and comfort to those who are facing adversity during the holiday season. How You Can Make a Difference Methodist Services believes in the power of community, and they invite you to join their mission. Your contribution, no matter how big or small, can make a significant impact. Here's how you can get involved: Donate Gifts and Gift Cards: Consider donating new and unwrapped gifts suitable for various age groups. From board books for infants to video games for high schoolers, your gifts can make children's holidays special. Gift Cards: Families treasure gift cards from popular retailers like Target, Kohl’s, Walmart, Best Buy, and Old Navy. These cards provide flexibility and allow recipients to choose items they need or desire. Baby Care Items: Many of the programs serve young children and families who could benefit from donations of new car seats, bouncy seats, high chairs, boxes of disposable diapers of all sizes, and other baby care items. Gift Wrapping Supplies: Methodist Services also appreciates receiving wrapping paper, gift bags, and bows. These items make the presentation of gifts even more special. Let's Come Together The deadline for donations is the week of December 11th, so it's time to start thinking about how you can contribute to this wonderful cause. Your generosity can bring smiles and happiness to mothers, children, and others during the holiday season. By donating, you can help Methodist Services fulfill their mission of making children's holidays special and supporting families in need. As we embrace the spirit of giving this holiday season, let's come together as a community and show those facing adversity that we care. Your kindness can make a world of difference in the lives of those who need it most. Suggested Donations:Young Children: Infants & Toddlers: Board Books, Toddler Toys, Mr. Potato Head, Peg Puzzles, Push & Ride-on Toys, Bibs, Diapers & WipesPre-School: Ages 3-5 Years: Age-Appropriate Books, Mr./Ms. Potato Head, Age-Appropriate Toys, Safe Blocks, Art Supplies (Paints, Finger Paints, Markers), Playdough, Fun Foam, Kinetic Sand, Craft Supplies (Ribbon, Yarn, Fabric, etc), Trucks, Cars, Active Toys, Dolls (African American, Latino, Other), Wooden Puzzles, Dress Up Clothing & Accessories, Learning GamesElementary School: Ages 6-10 Years: Action Figures, Legos, 30 to 50 Piece Puzzles, Age-Appropriate Books, Sports Equipment, Team Apparel, Arts & Crafts Supplies, Trucks, Train & Car Sets, Dolls (African American, Latino, etc.)Middle School: Ages 11-14 Years: Age-appropriate books, Bi-Lingual Books and games, Arts and crafts Supplies, Science Kits, Robotic Sets, Beauty and grooming Items, Sports Equipment, Team Apparel, Jewelry, Video Games, Gaming SystemsHigh School: Ages 15-18 Years: Age-appropriate books, Gift Cards, Arts and crafts Supplies, Sports Equipment, Beauty and grooming Items, Jewelry, Video Games, Gaming SystemsYoung Adult: Ages 18-24 Years: Pillows & Twin Comforters, Twin Bed Sheets & Mattress Protectors, Towel Sets & Washcloths, Shower Curtains & Liners, Dish Cloths, Board Games, Journals, Small Room Trash Cans, Dish Sets, Pots/PansAdults in Our Programs: Books, Jewelry, Beauty & Grooming Items, Personal Care Baskets, Hats, Scarves, Watches Monetary Donation

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Christmas Notes from Pastor Kevin

Posted By Pastor Kevin

Merry Christmas! Hearing those words can bring a smile to my face, especially from a loved one. Oh, but there is so much to do between now and Christmas, and each day of December seems to tick by at a lightning pace. In addition to our everyday business of working, keeping the house clean, getting children to their activities, and staying connected as a family, this time of year adds Christmas shopping, Christmas parties, Christmas decorating, and Christmas itself.Before you start calling me a Bah Humbug, I love Christmas. I love seeing my children's faces light up when the Christmas decorations turn on for the first time, just like they did when they were younger. I love that our children are old enough to help decorate the tree without worrying too much about broken ornaments. Where I struggle, and I say this as a pastor, is how to keep still long enough to focus on the time of advent and Christmas and to make sure my kids also keep the meaning of Christmas in their hearts.Let's be honest. The idea of adding anything new to an already busy schedule is terrifying, borderline sitting in the corner of my office rocking terrifying. However, suppose your season is just as busy, but you want to focus on the hopeful waiting of advent and the celebration of Christ's first coming in Christmas. In that case, I offer a few suggestions to transform what you are already doing into moments of faith formation.Tree Decorating: I don't know about your family's traditions, but our family decorates the tree together, at least after I wrestle with the lights for an hour or two. Rebecca hands the ornaments to each child, and they find places to hang them. Rebecca and I usually hang the last ornament – a ceramic door with our last name over it – and then we take our picture. Offering a blessing before you start can transform this fun, although sometimes frustrating, task into a moment of faith formation. Here is something you can use to bless your tree as you decorate it:God who created the birds in the air, the fish in the sea,      the stars in the sky, and the trees in the ground,      bless this tree as we decorate it and make it a joyful symbol in our home. May its branches remind us of the shade and shelter      you provide for us and for many creatures. May its trunk remind us of your strength. May its lights bring us peace. May we remember your gift to us this season, the gift of the baby Jesus. Amen.       Blessing Your Christmas Tree – Buildfaith.com Spending time with your Church Family: This year, on Sunday, December 18th, we will have our musical celebration of Lessons and Carols, followed by our church Christmas Dinner. I hope you will carve some time out of your busy season for this festive occasion. It is an excellent opportunity to invite friends and neighbors.Longest Night Service: Let's face it, the Christmas season can be challenging for many people. Whether they are grieving the loss of loved ones, are feeling lonely, or can't seem to get into the festive spirit they see in others this time of year. That is ok, and this year we are adding a service to our Christmas traditions called “The Longest Night Service.” This service, held on the First Day of Winter, December 21st, is a low-key contemplative service meant to give prayerful space to those who find the traditional Christmas celebrations challenging to manage.Christmas Eve: We sing our favorite carols and hear the Christmas story. Berwyn UMC will have our service at 7:00pm. This traditional service with candle lighting and communion is a perfect opportunity to sit and rest in the light and hope that Christ’s birth brings as we listen to and sing our favorite carols to the Christmas story.Christmas Day: We will have an informal celebration at our standard worship time of 10:00 am. There will be lessons, carols, and a brief message. Whether you come decked out in your favorite Christmas attire or show up in your favorite Christmas Jammies, you are welcome to this time of Joyful celebration.New Year's Day: We will gather at our standard worship time of 10:00 am for the Wesleyan Covenant Renewal Service. The heart of the service focused on the Covenant Prayer, requires persons to commit themselves to God. Wesley found the service rich and meaningful, as expressed in his Journal: "Many mourned before God, and many were comforted" (April 1756); "It was, as usual, a time of remarkable blessing" (October 1765). "It was an occasion for a variety of spiritual experiences ... I do not know that ever we had a greater blessing. Afterward, many desired to return thanks, either for a sense of pardon, for full salvation, or a fresh manifestation of His graces, healing all their backslidings" (January 1st, 1775). In London, these services were usually held on New Year's Day. My goal this Christmas is not to add more activities and duties but to transform the things that we already do into meaningful ways of sharing the story of Jesus. You can find more details in this newsletter and on our church website at https://www.berwynumc.org/Christmas. What are some of your favorite Christmas traditions?May your Christmas be Merry and Bright, Pastor Kevin 

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