Three Reasons We Pray Before Meals

Three Reasons We Pray Before Meals



At dining room tables and in kitchens across America, families will take a few moments today to pause and pray before devouring the feast before them.

Have you ever wondered why we do this? Or what to say? Whether your family “says grace,” “gives thanks” or “blesses the food,” here are three reasons we pray before meals. 

1. To celebrate who God is  

God is a giver. God is generous. Every time we bow our heads, it’s an opportunity to express gratitude for God’s character. King David, one of the leaders of Israel, gives us a great example of what this looks like. 

God put it on David’s heart to build a temple. To accomplish this task, the nation would need money, supplies, and skilled craftsmen to do the work. David asked everyone to give as they felt led, and the response was overwhelming! To celebrate, King David gathered the whole nation for a massive feast. Before they ate, David stood before the people and prayed:

“Blessed are you, O Lord, the God of Israel our father, forever and ever. Yours, O Lord, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the victory and the majesty, for all that is in the heavens and in the earth is yours. Yours is the kingdom, O Lord, and you are exalted as head above all” (1 Chronicles 29:10-11).  

Celebrating God’s greatness is one way we tell Him we love Him.

David starts his blessing by celebrating who God is. God loves hearing us tell Him what a good father He is just like we love it when our kids tell us what good parents we are. Celebrating God’s greatness is one way we tell Him we love Him. It also puts us in our place. When we recall how powerful and majestic God is, we remember how small and dependent on Him we are.

2. To remember who provides for us

God made everything. Whatever we have, God gave us. David understood that God is our provider, so before digging into the feast, he wanted to make sure Israel understood this as well:

“Both riches and honor come from you, and you rule over all. In your hand are power and might, and in your hand it is to make great and to give strength to all… who am I, and what is my people, that we should be able thus to offer willingly? For all things come from you, and of your own have we given you” (1 Chronicles 29:12-14).

This feast was not about celebrating Israel’s wealth, but God’s generosity. The same is true for us. The turkeys we carve are gifts from God. The homes eat in are gifts from God. He alone deserves the credit for it all, and when we understand that, it only feels natural to give Him thanks.

Taking a day to recognize how blessed we are is a good thing, but living each day with gratitude is a God thing. 

3. To redirect our hearts

After recognizing that God is great and He gives everything, David makes one ask: God, please don’t ever let us forget either one of those truths.

“I know, my God, that you test the heart and have pleasure in uprightness. In the uprightness of my heart I have freely offered all these things, and now I have seen your people, who are present here, offering freely and joyously to you. O Lord, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Israel, our fathers, keep forever such purposes and thoughts in the hearts of your people, and direct their hearts toward you” (1 Chronicles 29:17-18).

Taking a day to recognize how blessed we are is a good thing, but living each day with gratitude is a God thing. That’s what David wanted for his people, and that’s what God wants for us. How would it change our attitude to life if we prayed with the same earnestness we have on Thanksgiving 365 days a year?


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The Light That Shines In The Darkness

Published: December 25, 2024

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Exchanging Anxiety For Peace: A Journey Of Faith And Contentment

Published: December 10, 2024

Exchange Anxiety for Peace: A Transformative Gift In a world filled with chaos and uncertainty, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by anxiety. From global conflicts to personal challenges, the weight of worry can seem unbearable. But what if there were a way to exchange that anxiety for something infinitely more valuable—God’s peace? The Gift Exchange That Transforms As the holiday season approaches, many of us get caught up in the frenzy of gift-giving—making lists, shopping, and stressing over finding the "perfect" presents. Amid this whirlwind, let’s consider a different kind of exchange—one that doesn’t involve material goods but transforms our hearts. The world gives us its own “gifts,” but often these come as sorrow, fear, and darkness. These unwanted burdens can leave us feeling heavy and discouraged. Thankfully, God offers a divine exchange: trading our worries for His gifts of hope, peace, joy, love, and light. These are not temporary fixes—they are life-changing treasures. Jesus’ Promise of Peace Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.” These words are more than comforting—they’re an invitation to trust in a peace that transcends understanding. Say them aloud: “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you.” There’s a soothing rhythm in these words that quiets our hearts. This peace is more than a feeling of calm. It transforms our thoughts, actions, and even the world around us. It’s a peace that calls us to be active participants in God’s vision. Becoming Peacemakers The peace Jesus offers isn’t passive. It’s a call to action: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” True peace requires more than internal calm—it demands reconciliation, love for our neighbors (and enemies), and a commitment to seek justice. Our world desperately needs this kind of peace. News of war, violence, and injustice reminds us that as long as such realities exist, we cannot claim to have fully realized peace. Yet, this does not mean we should lose hope. Instead, hope propels us forward, helping us live in the tension between our current reality and the promised peace of God’s kingdom. Living the Divine Exchange How do we begin this exchange of anxiety for peace? It starts with turning to God. When worry threatens to overwhelm us, we can lean on Jesus’ words: “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Do not let them be afraid.” This peace is more than a personal escape from stress. It transforms how we live, love, and interact with others. It enables us to love ourselves, embrace our neighbors, and even extend grace to our enemies. Through this transformation, we become true children of God—peacemakers in a world hungry for hope. A Daily Challenge As we journey through this season and beyond, let’s challenge ourselves to make this exchange every day: When anxiety knocks, trade it for peace. When fear takes hold, exchange it for hope. When darkness creeps in, replace it with God’s light. This exchange isn’t always easy. It takes faith, practice, and perseverance. But the rewards are profound. Living in God’s peace allows us to share that peace with others, becoming beacons of hope and healing in a broken world. Reflecting the Prince of Peace Whatever weighs on your heart today, bring it to God. Offer it up in exchange for His peace. Then, empowered by that peace, step into the world as a peacemaker. In doing so, you reflect God’s love and bring His transformative peace to those around you. The Prince of Peace is always with us, ready to help us make this exchange. In His strength, we can trade anxiety for peace, fear for love, and darkness for light. This is the ultimate gift exchange—one that not only transforms us but also the world we touch. Are you ready to make the exchange today?
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