Making Discpleship a Priority in the New Year

Explore the difference between helping and enabling someone, the importance of allowing consequences, and how biblical love seeks the highest good for others while maintaining a focus on God's values and wisdom.

Have you ever had a moment when words you've heard countless times suddenly take on new meaning? When a familiar song, story, or message unexpectedly pierces your heart and transforms your perspective? This phenomenon – the sudden impact of words we thought we knew – reveals a profound truth about the power of language and the nature of spiritual awakening. Consider the classic Broadway musical "South Pacific." Hidden within its catchy tunes and romantic plot is a powerful anti-racist message, encapsulated in the song "You've Got to Be Carefully Taught." The lyrics explain that hatred and prejudice are not innate but learned: "You've got to be taught Before it's too late Before you are six or seven or eight To hate all the people your relatives hate You've got to be carefully taught" For many who grew up with this music, these words planted seeds of equality and acceptance long before they fully understood the concept of racism. The song's message, though wrapped in entertainment, carried real weight – shaping worldviews and challenging societal norms. But how does this relate to our spiritual lives? Just as we can hear a song many times before its message truly resonates, we often encounter spiritual truths repeatedly before they fundamentally change us. This is the essence of what we might call "the weight of the word" – the idea that words, especially those conveying divine truths, have a gravity and power that can profoundly impact our lives when we're finally ready to receive them. Take, for example, the story of Neil Diamond's song "Morningside" from his album "Hot August Night." The song tells of an old man who dies alone, leaving behind a handcrafted table as a gift for his children. Tragically, none of his children claim this labor of love, and the words he carved become his epitaph: "For my children." For many listeners, this poignant tale might simply be a sad song. But for others, at the right moment, it becomes a heart-wrenching allegory for the way we often overlook or reject the most precious gifts in our lives – including the spiritual truths offered to us. This brings us to the core of our reflection: How often do we hear the message of faith without truly listening? How many times have we sat through sermons, read scriptures, or encountered spiritual wisdom without allowing it to penetrate our hearts and change our lives? The Gospels provide a striking parallel. Jesus often found himself surrounded by crowds eager to see miracles or receive physical blessings. They followed him from town to town, amazed by his teachings and impressed by his actions. Yet how many truly understood and embraced the deeper spiritual truths he was offering? In John 6:26, Jesus addresses this directly, saying, "Very truly I tell you, you are looking for me, not because you saw the signs I performed but because you ate the loaves and had your fill." The people were focused on the immediate, tangible benefits of following Jesus rather than the transformative spiritual message he was sharing. This challenge – to move beyond surface-level engagement with spiritual truths – is one we all face. We might attend religious services regularly, participate in rituals, or even enjoy the community aspects of faith. But are we truly open to the weight of the word? Are we allowing the message of divine love and salvation to penetrate our hearts and change our lives? The journey from hearing to truly listening, from knowing about faith to experiencing it, is often gradual. Like a hammer striking a rock repeatedly before it finally cracks, our hearts may need multiple encounters with truth before we're ready to receive it fully. This is why consistent exposure to spiritual teachings is so important – we never know when that pivotal moment of understanding will come. For some, this moment of spiritual awakening comes unexpectedly. Imagine sitting in a familiar place of worship, hearing words you've heard countless times before, when suddenly – as if scales have fallen from your eyes – you see the truth with new clarity. The love of God, the sacrifice of Christ, the offer of salvation – concepts you've known intellectually suddenly become viscerally real. This experience of spiritual awakening reminds us that faith is not just about intellectual assent to certain truths. It's about a transformative encounter with divine love that changes how we see ourselves, others, and the world around us. It's about realizing that the creator of the universe offers us a love far greater and more profound than even the deepest human affection we've experienced. But here's the crucial point: while spiritual leaders and teachers play an important role in sharing these truths, the real power lies in how we, as individuals, internalize and share these messages in our daily lives. When a friend, family member, or neighbor shares how a particular scripture touched their heart or how they experienced God's love in a difficult situation, it often resonates more deeply than a formal sermon. This is the beautiful paradox of spiritual truth – it's both universally applicable and intensely personal. The same message that has been preached for centuries can suddenly become new and transformative when received with an open heart. And when we experience this transformation, we're called to share it with others, not through grand gestures or eloquent speeches, but through authentic living and genuine relationships. As we reflect on the weight of the word in our own lives, let's challenge ourselves to approach familiar spiritual truths with fresh eyes and open hearts. Let's be willing to let go of our preconceptions and truly listen for the voice of divine love speaking to us through scripture, through others, and through the quiet moments of our lives. Remember, the message of faith – that we are loved beyond measure by a God who offers us salvation and purpose – is not just a set of ideas to be intellectually understood. It's a transformative truth that, when fully embraced, has the power to change everything. May we all experience moments where the familiar suddenly becomes profound, where the words we've heard a thousand times suddenly take on new life, and where the weight of divine truth settles deeply into our hearts, changing us forever.